What do you feel like saying, right now?

[AGDee]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Yeah, $350k sounds like a cushion, but cash melts quick when rent, bills, and a depreciating camper are eating it alive. Equity builds, cash bleeds. When your fiancée’s cashing rent checks like she’s your landlord, you’re not really building a future, you’re buying time. And if dude thinks that $350k will stretch forever, just wait, give it a minute and he’ll end up in the Popeyes drive-thru praying for extra biscuits with the 2-piece special LOL

But for real though, here’s the real kicker. Research shows women initiate around 70 - 80 % of divorces, and that rate jumps to nearly 90% among college educated women. And most aren’t walking away from abuse either, they’re just walking away because they’re not happy. So tell me again why a dude would trade his house for a camper and rent agreement when the odds are stacked like that?

Because he could still walk away and buy a house with his cash. You act like he's not working and doesn't have a 401K. He'll be paying half what he's paying now for housing. I just put 50% down on a house that he'll end up inheriting when we get married. Why would I give him all of that without being married? Seriously??