What do you feel like saying, right now?

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Here’s my question. Why didn’t you join a sorority? I think you’d have gotten selected fast Lol. For real. I think you’d have been a good member to one of them.

Thanks, Phrozen, but I just didn’t feel I needed to join a sorority. I mean, I’m not anti-sorority, I just felt like I didn’t need the title or system to have a presence? I mean, I already had the personality, the attention, and the connections without paying for them. Know what I mean? And then, my personality already came with a following. My best friend wanted me to rush with her, but I told her I wasn’t about to pay money to pretend I liked people I’d ghost after graduation.

[cheerfulgreek]

WIFLSRN: Why does GC keep giving me an error message off and on? I’m using my phone’s data so I don’t get it.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

WIFLSRN: Why does GC keep giving me an error message off and on? I’m using my phone’s data so I don’t get it.

If you’re riding in a car and hitting WiFi inconsistently, that could be why. I haven’t had any error messages on my end.

[Cheerio]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

WIFLSRN: Why does GC keep giving me an error message off and on? I’m using my phone’s data so I don’t get it.

The number of online "guests" using this site has been high. I've noticed a yo-yoing condition of between 35,000 and 45,000 online users during the past seven hours.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

LMAO! I hollered. Wow! This entire post is snobby as hell. You are a trip LOL!

Let’s back up, CG. Oh I know you got a lot of attention Lol, and your personality probably had a large following too, so I’ll co-sign there. But damn, you think us Greek life folks didn’t have a presence before we pledged? You make it sound like we needed letters to have a presence LOL!

Didn’t you date a dude in a fraternity in college? You said you dropped off some gifts he got you in front of his fraternity house because y’all broke up or something to that affect. So, if you didn’t want anything to do with Greek life, how’d you meet him? Not trying to be all in your past business, I’m just curious.

Nooooooo, lol. Omg you are totally misreading me! That’s not what I meant, I swear. Okay… so….I wasn’t trying to be snobby, like… at all. That’s literally why I put a question mark? I mean, it wasn’t some dramatic statement like I don’t need anyone, it was more like… I guess I didn’t feel like I needed it? Ya know? Like, I wasn’t saying I’m better, I just didn’t feel the need to pay for something I already kind of had on my own? If that makes sense?

And then, I’m not going to entertain the last part of your post, because I already posted that story. And then, because you’re greekchat.com’s instigator, something tells me you’re trying to set me up for your own amusement.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

If you’re riding in a car and hitting WiFi inconsistently, that could be why. I haven’t had any error messages on my end.

I dunno, because I’m now at my sister-in-law’s house and I’m on her WiFi. And I’m still having the same problem.

Originally Posted by Cheerio

The number of online "guests" using this site has been high. I've noticed a yo-yoing condition of between 35,000 and 45,000 online users during the past seven hours.

Is that what it is? I wonder why so many. The off and on error message is really annoying.

[John]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

WIFLSRN: Why does GC keep giving me an error message off and on? I’m using my phone’s data so I don’t get it.

Too much website traffic, mostly from bots, is overwhelming the server/software and causing the site to go offline during the peaks in traffic.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

If you’re riding in a car and hitting WiFi inconsistently, that could be why. I haven’t had any error messages on my end.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

I dunno, because I’m now at my sister-in-law’s house and I’m on her WiFi. And I’m still having the same problem.

Not your WiFi or anything on your side of things. These errors are definitely originating on GC's server.

Originally Posted by Cheerio

The number of online "guests" using this site has been high. I've noticed a yo-yoing condition of between 35,000 and 45,000 online users during the past seven hours.

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Is that what it is? I wonder why so many. The off and on error message is really annoying.

The "Online Users" count on the left side of most pages is a count of page loads from the prior 15 minutes. Today we peaked so far at around 75,000 over 15 minutes. 50k here plus approx 25k redirected.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

And then, I’m not going to entertain the last part of your post, because I already posted that story. And then, because you’re greekchat.com’s instigator, something tells me you’re trying to set me up for your own amusement.
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LMAO! Why do y’all all think I’m up to something? I’m just trying to keep GC fun. For real though, you told the story but not the whole thing. As I remember, you just said you tapped into dude’s v-mail and heard a chick, then packed up all dude’s gifts he got you, put it in a garbage bag and dropped it off in front of his fraternity house, which I thought was funny as hell. The mental image of it had me Lmao. You didn’t even knock? Dude didn’t try to explain himself? I’m just asking because you didn’t have any proof. Did he try to get you back? Did you go back? Was this when you were at the University of Minnesota? These are details you left out. Dude probably opened the door and said wtf? LOL!

Originally Posted by John

Not your WiFi or anything on your side of things. These errors are definitely originating on GC's server.

I wasn’t seeing what y’all were seeing. It was slow to load, but I didn’t see any error messages show up on my end.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

LMAO! Why do y’all all think I’m up to something? I’m just trying to keep GC fun. For real though, you told the story but not the whole thing. As I remember, you just said you tapped into dude’s v-mail and heard a chick, then packed up all dude’s gifts he got you, put it in a garbage bag and dropped it off in front of his fraternity house, which I thought was funny as hell. The mental image of it had me Lmao. You didn’t even knock? Dude didn’t try to explain himself? I’m just asking because you didn’t have any proof. Did he try to get you back? Did you go back? Was this when you were at the University of Minnesota? These are details you left out. Dude probably opened the door and said wtf? LOL!

lol
Because you are usually up to something.

This was when I was at UND. I was a cheerleader, he was on the football team, and he just happened to be in a fraternity too.

I didn’t need proof, I had peace. And that was enough. Besides, proof is for court, Phrozen. Intuition is for self-respect, which I’ve always had a lot of. But it wouldn’t matter, by the time I would’ve gotten the proof, I’d already returned the garbage bag of gifts he got me.

Things that are easily available and cost very little are often low in value and low in quality. So, some of my friends tried making excuses for him by telling me that he made a mistake, that I have too much pride and that I should take him back. I told them that it’s not pride, it’s pricing. I don’t hand out full price loyalty to discount behavior.

Bottom line is that I’m not a game. Honestly? I was the final exam that boy forgot to study for. He didn’t realize that dating me is like parking in a garage with security cameras. Try something stupid and see what happens. He didn’t get caught. He got figured out. That’s what happened.

He just didn’t get that I didn’t play games. I set boundaries, color code them, laminate them, and highlight them in pink.

[Phrozen Sands]

I’ve seen GreekChat slow, but damn. It’s a ghost town now Lol. Folks went ghost.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

I’ve seen GreekChat slow, but damn. It’s a ghost town now Lol. Folks went ghost.

They're plotting...

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by honeychile

They're plotting...

I guess so. I need some laughs though.

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Thanks, Phrozen, but I just didn’t feel I needed to join a sorority. I mean, I’m not anti-sorority, I just felt like I didn’t need the title or system to have a presence? I mean, I already had the personality, the attention, and the connections without paying for them. Know what I mean? And then, my personality already came with a following. My best friend wanted me to rush with her, but I told her I wasn’t about to pay money to pretend I liked people I’d ghost after graduation.

LMAO! I hollered. Wow! This entire post is snobby as hell. You are a trip LOL!

Let’s back up, CG. Oh I know you got a lot of attention Lol, and your personality probably had a large following too, so I’ll co-sign there. But damn, you think us Greek life folks didn’t have a presence before we pledged? You make it sound like we needed letters to have a presence LOL!

Didn’t you date a dude in a fraternity in college? You said you dropped off some gifts he got you in front of his fraternity house because y’all broke up or something to that affect. So, if you didn’t want anything to do with Greek life, how’d you meet him? Not trying to be all in your past business, I’m just curious.