What do you feel like saying, right now?

[Phrozen Sands]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Yes. To me, I think relationships thrive on laughter, trust, and consistency, so next time, don’t settle for less than what makes you happy. The right person will appreciate your playful side. I think every past relationship teaches us something. I mean, they definitely tell us what we don’t want in a partner. I think the right person will match your energy and make even the harder times easier to face. Know what I mean?

Like, when my hubby and I were first dating, I didn’t know what really attracted me to him, other than my initial, physical attraction to him. I mean, I didn’t know if it was his reserved charm, his incredibly good looks, or the fact that he could make me laugh like no one else. But whatever it was, I was hooked. Although, I was drawn to his quiet, confident personality, I think his humor caught me completely off guard and made me fall even harder. So, I just can’t see a relationship thriving without humor.

You know what I’ve noticed? Just my observation. You were attracted to a quiet, reserved dude, but you yourself seem to be loud as hell Lol. How’d that happen? I always see that a lot. Opposites attracting. I rarely see or know two quiet people together and the loud people that I’ve seen together or know don’t seem to work out. I’ve seen two quiet people work and couples with one person quite, while the other is loud. I can’t figure that chemistry out. When I say loud, I mean outgoing (talkative).