Boyfriend and Sororities

[Jen]

You're dating a control freak who is waving all the red flags available to him.

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by Jen

You're dating a control freak who is waving all the red flags available to him.

I cannot be emphatic enough that this statement is dead on the money. You're better than this and you deserve far more than what you are getting. Move on.

[33girl]

To quote Dan Savage: DTMFA. (Dump The Mother F$#%*r Already)

If you give in to him on this issue, he will find something else to be jealous and controlling about - the people you’re doing a group project with in class, the girls you get an apartment with, the guy you occasionally play tennis with. You are being emotionally abused. I can’t stress this enough.

I would also talk to his ex (who told you this “groupie” garbage? Your boyfriend?) and get the real scoop because obviously this is how he thinks a relationship should be.

If his life is in the shitter and going nowhere, it’s up to HIM to improve it - not to make you feel sad and guilty because your life is going somewhere.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by Jen

You're dating a control freak who is waving all the red flags available to him.

Yes, I'm making this unanimous.

This is not about sorority, this is about personal choices in general. If he cannot come on board graciously, then you're better off without him. AND, I say this as someone who has been through the whole control issue. You will survive.