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Originally Posted by elizababe1
At the risk of sounding dense, what are good clubs to make friends? I've tried various organizations already but I don't really know how to get involved. I'm not at all popular and already an upperclassman so I worry I come across as the weird person when I show up somewhere new. Am I just panicking?
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I’m jumping in late but I agree with the poster who recommended you go talk to the campus counseling services. If you are 20 or 21 and struggle to make friends, it’s probably time to seek some outside help.
Honestly, college is the last time of your life when you can literally trip in any direction and make friends, whether it’s in class, the dorms, an off campus apartment complex, intermural athletics, volunteer work, a house of worship, clubs, school spirit groups, etc. It only gets more difficult to make friends once you’re out in the real world starting your career so figure it out now. It sounds like for where you are maturity-wise, learning how to make friends and be social will pay off the rest of your life in a much bigger way than wearing sorority letters.
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