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[AnchorAlumna]

Originally Posted by APhi2KD

Can you skip any parties? I thought on most campuses you had to attend each on your schedule.

Skip parties and you will find yourself entirely excused from recruitment.

[APhi2KD]

Originally Posted by AnchorAlumna

Skip parties and you will find yourself entirely excused from recruitment.

Thanks, that’s what I thought.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by APhi2KD

Thanks, that’s what I thought.

Really? I thought you were able to be excused from a house that you quit. Of course, you can't just skip any party without getting it approved in advance. So sorry if I gave bad advice.

[NYCMS]

Originally Posted by thetalady

Really? I thought you were able to be excused from a house that you quit. Of course, you can't just skip any party without getting it approved in advance. So sorry if I gave bad advice.

It's been decades since it happened at my chapter, but if memory serves correct, the former pledge came into the house with her rushee group and then was quietly seated in a side room - easy to do since everyone was high energy and it was crowded so I don't think anyone noticed. When the rushees began leaving, she slipped into the group going out the door.

I really was sorry that she de-pledged - she was a stellar gal - and I was very happy when she got into the house she loved - which was Theta!