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Originally Posted by DGTess
I think a lot of this is cultural, and will probably take at least another generation to eradicate. We tend to be more forgiving, more understanding, perhaps, of "boys will be boys". We also tend to see a handful of outside-the-norm men as "the outliers" who are tolerated, if not accepted, while a handful of outside-the-norm women are seen as "mean girls" who require an in-or-out decision.
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This has gone on for to many Generations and there is now never any time for excuses.
1. Alumni who are involved must be keeping and eye out and make sure it doesn't happen. Especially Alum Advisers.
2. If hazing is going on, is it by a few or total chapter. If a few, get rid of them, not the whole chapter.
I saw this happen when one of my Chapters had a female student accuse them of being raped in the house! The girl recanted but the chapter was put on probation. They were doing very well but, another charge was trumped up and the were banned. I was and still am irate over this!
Many good young men were harmed over this!
Try restarting a new chapter over and see how easy it is!
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