Recruitment Advice

[Throwaway234]

Originally Posted by Titchou

You say "chapter" so I'm wondering if it was specific to them or sorority wide. I know that some of our chapters in the deep South still do chapter church every now and then but it isn't a national thing.

At any rate,it is a unanimous agreement between all NPC groups that you can only ever be a member of one group.
No one has ever received permission to do otherwise since the UA was signed.

I gathered that my chapter was much bigger on the religion than others.

[33girl]

About how big was the chapter? I'm confused because you say "things must be different at bigger schools" and if you were in a smaller chapter/group I would think you'd have gotten more exposure to the majority of the chapter before initiation.

I'm also assuming you aren't talking about one of the historically Jewish groups because a quick Google mentions that about both of them. This isn't trying to fire questions or call you out, I just don't get some parts of your post.

[Throwaway234]

It's not those. I don't remember exactly, but there are less than 300 members. Our pledge class didn't really get to socialize with the other pledge classes before initiation, and our meetings consisted of just the new members. I wasn't sure if that was standard practice or just a smaller school thing. Initiation also was not long after receiving bid cards so maybe they just didn't have time to schedule get-togethers. I don't want this to sound like I'm blaming them either! Looking back I should have made more of an effort to reach out to the other girls too.