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Originally Posted by 33girl
Just because there are pictures of you out and about doesn't necessarily mean you're spending money there. I recall many times when people would be drinking pop or water at the bars simply because they were too broke for anything alcoholic, and their cover charge was paid with coins dug out of the couch.
I know there are those people who are doing what you say, but please don't paint everyone with the same brush.
(This argument would be more foolproof if we were discussing men instead of women, incidentally. )
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And this is where Honor Board/Standards should have a chat with the young lady to discern the facts and advise her on this behaviour.
We once had a young lady who was continual in arrears financially and told us the family was having difficulties. PH put on an event where fraternity men auctioned off their help - yard work, car washing, cooking dinner, etc - for philanthropy. I had to send our president over to this lady to tell her she had bid/bought her last auction item or I'd see her in Honor Board. She had money - it's her priorities that were the problem.