I got cut from a bunch of houses and I don't know why

[willala]

Thanks everyone for all the advice! It's really helped me feel better! Right now I still have one house left that I absolutely love. The others on my schedule, not so much. I'm just concerned that this house will drop me as well. I thought things went well at round two but I'm worried that I could be reading the situation wrong as I did with round one.

[tcsparky]

Willala, the advice you have been given is terrific. As one poster above said: There are NO "bad" chapters at UGA. The chapters are very large, so even if you are not in love with the other chapters on your list, and your top pick drops you, KEEP GOING- there will be women in those chapters you can connect with. You just might not meet them during Recruitment. Every chapter at UGA will offer an amazing experience, Homecoming activities, mixers with Fraternities, philanthropy events, Sisterhood activities, etc...... You will meet women in any chapter with whom you can become friends, and you will make friends with Greek women in other chapters.

My advice is this: Stick it out til the end, accept your bid if offered one, and give it your best. Formal Recruitment your Freshman year gives you the best chance to get a bid.

Let us know how it goes!!!

[DGTess]

Originally Posted by willala

Thanks everyone for all the advice! It's really helped me feel better! Right now I still have one house left that I absolutely love. The others on my schedule, not so much. I'm just concerned that this house will drop me as well. I thought things went well at round two but I'm worried that I could be reading the situation wrong as I did with round one.

Keep an open mind for all of them, not just the one you absolutely love today. It is astonishing how different chapters can touch you later in the week. Give every one the same chance to impress you that you want them to give you to impress them.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by willala

Thanks everyone for all the advice! It's really helped me feel better! Right now I still have one house left that I absolutely love. The others on my schedule, not so much. I'm just concerned that this house will drop me as well. I thought things went well at round two but I'm worried that I could be reading the situation wrong as I did with round one.

And that COULD happen! You never know. I will pretty much guarantee you that the chapter that you love is NOT significantly different from the ones that you are not in love with. EVERY chapter has fun girls, party girls, scholars, athletes, outgoing girls, shy girls, religious girls, etc. You aren't getting to meet them all. Don't get attached to ANY chapter!! Appreciate every invitation and give them all an equal chance.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by willala

Thanks everyone for all the advice! It's really helped me feel better! Right now I still have one house left that I absolutely love. The others on my schedule, not so much. I'm just concerned that this house will drop me as well. I thought things went well at round two but I'm worried that I could be reading the situation wrong as I did with round one.

Keep an open mind. You've only met a small percentage of sisters so far. You might end up with a new a favorite by the next round. Lots of people do.

Have fun!