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Old 12-22-2015, 08:44 PM
thetalady thetalady is offline
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I had very bad winter depression (called SAD) for many years before I was diagnosed by my doctor. It may not be the whole answer to your issue, but please make sure you are getting plenty of full spectrum light (use a lamp if needed) and take a Vit D supplement.

Is this difficulty in making friends new or something that you have experienced in the past or other parts of your life? Is it possible that this is something that is more of an issue through your life?
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Old 12-22-2015, 11:32 PM
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^^^this, especially if your school is somewhere colder than where you grew up.

I know part of it is because I'm an only child, but I can't imagine being upset about a single room in the sorority house! Best of both worlds - you have sisters in the house when you want them, but you can keep your room however you want it and sleep when you want and listen to whatever music you want and shack when you want (whoops scratch that last one I guess).

Sometimes you might get that left out feeling when it seems like every girl in your chapter has a BFF they do everything with. Here's the thing though - that's not all good. It can really annoy others and when you're together that much, at some point there'll probably be a fight or two. You're someone people can come to when they need to get away from that.

One of my favorite quotes is "You never knew how much space you occupied in other people's lives. " I bet that many of your sisters would be amazed to know you feel this way.
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