Would you pledge a sorority known for dirty rushing?

[Griffins&Quills]

TBH, I think you need to forget about this party and any others you may go to before recruitment actually happens. And by forget about I mean, stop letting it weigh so heavily on your conscious. Wait until recruitment starts, see how you feel at houses, see where you get invited back, and go where you feel most comfortable. Period end. Unless you're blatantly trying to screw PNMs over, 'dirty rushing' and a lot of the PHC rules (see melon baller example above) don't really matter.

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by Griffins&Quills

TBH, I think you need to forget about this party and any others you may go to before recruitment actually happens. And by forget about I mean, stop letting it weigh so heavily on your conscious. Wait until recruitment starts, see how you feel at houses, see where you get invited back, and go where you feel most comfortable. Period end. Unless you're blatantly trying to screw PNMs over, 'dirty rushing' and a lot of the PHC rules (see melon baller example above) don't really matter.

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[Size_Small]

Originally Posted by Griffins&Quills

TBH, I think you need to forget about this party and any others you may go to before recruitment actually happens. And by forget about I mean, stop letting it weigh so heavily on your conscious. Wait until recruitment starts, see how you feel at houses, see where you get invited back, and go where you feel most comfortable. Period end. Unless you're blatantly trying to screw PNMs over, 'dirty rushing' and a lot of the PHC rules (see melon baller example above) don't really matter.

Yes, you're right. I actually meant to end everything back at post #19 where I said I'd do essentially what you just advised here! However, someone asked about the recruitment party, I responded, and the whole circus started up again. Like I've said in post #19, I'll go into recruitment with an open heart, and if I ever get the chance to choose, I'll "choose" the one that I love the most, regardless of its flaws.

On principle, breaking rules (even if I benefit) matters to me (except when it comes to the aesthetics of fruit.

Trust me, I don't speak "like this" either. Speaking and writing are two very separate things. Don't I wish I had the ability to think on a response for 10 minutes and make use of a backspace IRL!