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Originally Posted by WhiteRose1912
Nipples aren't genitals. I would hope if a female member of your organization regularly liked to show up to events with raging camel toe, that something would've been said to her, too. That shit's embarrassing and inappropriate for most circumstances.
I have to agree with everyone else. You're only hurting yourself by not moving on. Don't let people disagreeing with you ruin your membership.
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I wouldn't know. As far as I know it, either it's never happened or no one's ever said anything before. But, I don't look for problems like that. I'm sure if we look hard enough we could probably find someone that fits that description or could easily be defined as innapropriate and uncomfortable to look at or be around. Closest could probably be someone's underwear showing, whether it's a guy's boxer or a girl's thong. That stuff is to some people, unappealing to look at and inappropriate. But people do it and others don't say anything about it.
I just mind my own business and do my own thing if I did see stuff like that. I'm in no position to judge others. I didn't go there to judge others. I went there to attend an event.
Now if my fly was open. then yes, by all means, tell me. that is embarrassing and should be notified asap.
The easiest way to solve the issue was to discuss proper dress code for regular events and define what "attire: Casual" meant. But we couldn't come to terms because that's what other orgs do and several members did not join another org because they were forced to dress a certain way all the time.
I"m trying to let it go and move on. it'll take time. It helps to talk it over. to clear the air and say what needs to be said. Release tension and stored feelings. All that stuff. So talking here does help.
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