Thanks so much... That did help. But truthfully, I don't understand why these two sororities put me on their pref lists. I didn't feel comfortable with them and really did not know what to say to them. They were my 7th and 8th choices out of 8 sororities. I will not drop out of rush, because I do want to be eligible for other types of bidding, and I will try to keep an open mind tonight. But it won't be easy, and I can't help having a negative attitude about the other sororities altogether. I mean, if they didn't want me the first time, then even if they give me snap bids or COB's, I don't really know if I'd even want to accept them. I wasn't good enough for them the first time. It's just so disappointing when I didn't get invited back to the ones I felt most at home with. And I hate to say it, but the ones that did invite me back are also the least popular ones on campus... so they probably only invited me because they won't get prefs from too many of the rushees. It's just the truth. I will try to keep an open mind, but I also don't want to end up somewhere where I'm not happy. I'd rather just not be in a sorority than do that.
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