If you are not interested in being active, I would just keep my mouth shut all the way around. You don't have to use a sorority to make friends on campus.
I just read it as she wants to get re-acclimated to school again before making a full commitment to be an active member and be sure she's not getting in over her head timewise or otherwise.
A lot depends on the size of the school, too.
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