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Originally posted by mgdzkm433:
This is what I hate about formal rush, it not only can work against the sororities, but it can work against the girls as well, and that is not something we want. In a way I feel for the girl, but in another, I don't. She didn't have to accept the bid. She could have waited and attended a informal rush put on by the sorority she wanted and maybe have been picked up. On my campus, when formal rush is over, anyone who didn't get a bid, or didn't accept a bid can be picked up by a sorority so many days after formal rush is over.
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Its not like this on our campus - if you put down QQQ as your first choice and JJJ as your second, and JJJ bids on you (but not QQQ) then you are obliged to wait one year before going to any rush parties (formal or informal) because you have to sign a form when you put your choices down that if one of them picks you, you are obliged to them. I know some colleges do this after signing a bid card, but not us. Once you put those 2 choices down, you are obliged to one of them if they choose you. Stupid, huh? Guess I should have clarified this! Sorry - but thanks for your input!
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