Considering disaffiliating.

[Kevin]

Cru is not the same as a greek organization. If you care about right now more than the rest of your life, I guess go for it. Cru is just a campus club. I don't see members leaving fraternities for Key Club, that is basically what you are suggesting.

You likely made some vows about being a member for life, that you would be faithful to Sigma.. I guess in a fleeting moment of not feeling like you're the center of attention, you'd be willing to go back on that.

Try actually committing yourself to Sigma like you promised to. Be competitive with your sisters, help your chapter achieve big things. That is how those bonds are formed. You don't just go through some ritual and magically have some sort of amazing friendships--those have to appear organically through sharing experiences.

And this bit about having to choose your org or Christ is a load of hooey. I'll bet if you organized a group of sisters to go to church or wanted to hold Bible studies at the house, you'd probably get a fair number of takers.