Considering disaffiliating.

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Originally Posted by Believer.Change

So, hello. I came here looking for advise. I am a member of Tri Sigma, joining last Spring. When I joined I was a transfer student looking for a place to belong. I fell in love with Sigma. but with that, my who life became Sigma. Now, I feel like I never actually got to know any of my sisters, and they didn't get to know me. I've apparently said things that people didn't agree with and instead of coming to me about it, they went to my big. I also just recent;y became a Big.

I just feel my life has just become Sigma and I need to take a step back, so I did. Now I've made friends in another group, Cru, and they make me feel more accepted and wanted then my own sorority does. I feel like when I joined Sigma, I pushed my relation with God out the door, and I don't like that.

I want to be there for my little and not leave her, but Im starting to feel like I don't belong. It seems that everything is being focused on Winning and not on forming bonds of sisterhood.

I can't talk to my big about this because I don't think she would approve, her big left her 1 semester after she was initiated. It has given her resentment, and I don't want to do that to my little.

I just don't know what to do and could use some advise.

OFP