First impressions -- am I too much?

[33girl]

I think it all depends on the rushee. I know that something that personally turned me off was when people were too gung ho - like every single thing they said revolved around XYZ or related to XYZ. I mean, I could have said something about Einstein and they would have said "Did you know Einstein's granddaughter's cousin's best friend's neighbor was an XYZ?" It made me feel like if I pledged that sorority I would be signing my entire life away to them with no time of my own.