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The drive to "fit in" and not risk being made fun of or ostracized from your circle of friends is very powerful. It doesn't matter if the member is a new member/pledge, initiated member, or alumna/alumni. It's all well-and-good to sit here and say she should have done this or that but, let's be honest, it's really hard to stand up and leave a situation like this because of the amount of peer pressure a person is under to just go along with it because "it's always been done that way".
Let's stop blaming the person who the hazing was done to.
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"To my mind,
Growth;
To myself,
Faith
That I may walk truly in the light of the Flame."
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