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Originally Posted by thetalady

Get involved in something else!! There have to be lots of activities on campus. Join a service organization, join a professional organization associated with your major, join a club that does an activity that you like. There are a million other things to do. Get up & get going!

OP yes I'm sure it stinks and hurts a bit to be rejected a second time. If your grades met the min. requirements the reason you got cut, is not something that anyone on this board can tell you since the criteria might be specific to the chapter and that's not discussed outside of that chapter.

I would explore your options and try and pursue something else, especially if you go to a mid-sized school I'm sure there are a variety of things. I would say give yourself some time to deal with the disappointment but don't let that take over your life.

Wishing you the best.

[erica812]

Yep...it does hurt. It stinks. I've been in a similar position. But sorority life isn't the end-all of college life; get out there and build a great experience. It might seem strange that the members are acting friendly after the fact, but isn't that actually a good thing? Having more friends is a positive...even if you don't share letters.

Good luck, hon.