First Time at Homecoming as a Neo

[Sen's Revenge]

I did not attend a college for which homecoming was a big deal for our NPHC Greeks. Those of us who crossed grad chapters just put on our jackets and enjoyed homecoming as usual. I was cordial to the other members of my frat that I saw, but there were no expectations on either side.

Please don't go back to your homecoming with the assumption that everything is hunky dory between you and the chapter. You weren't selected for a reason and some people will be resentful to see you, especially if you try to ingratiate yourself "in the circle" so to speak.