Dealing with bullying...

[ΣKΞFounder]

Originally Posted by Kevin

You have 9 posts. You get hardly any flack around here, actually, none of which I'm aware. Good luck with your colony, but using a thread about bullying to promote your group is in fairly bad taste. In this context, we don't care how awesome Sigma Kappa Xi is doing.

To the OP, you are handling it exactly right. Gather your evidence against these individuals. Strategically, the threatening text messages sound fairly damning. It's pretty typical of someone like that to simply double down.

I've dealt with many cases of domestic violence as an attorney. Your first item of business is to cease communication with them as much as is possible. If they blow up your phone, tell them to leave you alone, but leave it at that. Do not discuss any threats with them, do not discuss your feelings with them. Only tell them once not to contact you again and have no further contact. If your chapter's standards board doesn't take care of this, there are options out there which you can discuss with your school (their conduct is likely a violation of the student code of conduct) or even legal, throw their asses in jail if they keep it up, remedies.

I did not mean around here as in these threads...as in my school....and I was pointing out the reasons I was (and still am) being harassed/bullied. I was trying to be helpful mr.debbiedowner