Dealing with bullying...

[Kevin]

Originally Posted by ΣKΞFounder

Don't give up! I have been dealing with bullying and harassment for over three years (mostly from frat and sorority people, sadly), and I still keep my head up high, ignore the people hating me, and know that I am better than them and always will be because I do not spread wrongful hate just because. I get a lot of flack around here because I did found a co-ed fraternity that is doing well and already has two chapters in two seperate states and another prospective coloney all in one years time. Among other things is why I get a lot of unwanted attention, but it is not because of anything I did wrong. You are not doing ANYTHING wrong, they are. They will get what is coming to them, and I know it is hard to sit and wait, but it is worth it in the end when you will be amoung loving sisters that care for you and the "sisters" that are bullying you learn their lesson.

You have 9 posts. You get hardly any flack around here, actually, none of which I'm aware. Good luck with your colony, but using a thread about bullying to promote your group is in fairly bad taste. In this context, we don't care how awesome Sigma Kappa Xi is doing.

To the OP, you are handling it exactly right. Gather your evidence against these individuals. Strategically, the threatening text messages sound fairly damning. It's pretty typical of someone like that to simply double down.

I've dealt with many cases of domestic violence as an attorney. Your first item of business is to cease communication with them as much as is possible. If they blow up your phone, tell them to leave you alone, but leave it at that. Do not discuss any threats with them, do not discuss your feelings with them. Only tell them once not to contact you again and have no further contact. If your chapter's standards board doesn't take care of this, there are options out there which you can discuss with your school (their conduct is likely a violation of the student code of conduct) or even legal, throw their asses in jail if they keep it up, remedies.