Let's say you go through recruitment and get in- which is not likely in many schools, but that aside- do you really have a lot in common with the 18 year olds who will be in your pledge class as a 21-year old mother? The girls will want to socialize together; can you see yourself leaving your child at home with your fiancé to go to a fraternity mixer? I joined a service sorority (read: noncompetitive) at 21 with no kids and I made friends with other older sisters, but not so much in my pledge class. Even as a service sorority, much of the focus was on social events. Is this really your scene these days?
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* Winter * "Apart" of isn't the right term...it is " a_part_of"...
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