I hate to rain on anyone's parade, but I will not endorse a reference if I do not personally know the PNM or her family. I am always happy to pass along a PNM's information to a chapter with my name attached, but in these cases, I always leave it up to the chapter to decide if they want to invite the PNM back to the next round of parties.
So, if I get a random "Will you write me a reference" request, I answer "I will be happy to forward your information to AB chapter".
I hate to rain on anyone's parade, but I will not endorse a reference if I do not personally know the PNM or her family. I am always happy to pass along a PNM's information to a chapter with my name attached, but in these cases, I always leave it up to the chapter to decide if they want to invite the PNM back to the next round of parties.
So, if I get a random "Will you write me a reference" request, I answer "I will be happy to forward your information to AB chapter".
I don't know how this rains on anyone's parade. We've suggested that she search her contacts for sorority members that would write her recs. All of the methods mentioned would mean that the rec writer knows the PNM or her family personally. No one has suggested she ask random sorority members for recs.
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