I'm thinking about dropping.

[33girl]

Your big sounds like the Kris Jenner of sorority - i.e. she thought having a popular little would make her popular. Although I can't figure out whether you guys stopped talking BEFORE or AFTER you found out everyone dislikes her. If you dropped what it sounds like was a close friendship just because you found out how everyone felt about her, no one is going to feel kindly toward you, even if they don't like her. Sorry if I'm accusing you of things that aren't what is happening, but again it's hard to tell from your post.

I have been out of school for a looooong time and you know what? Some people STILL crack on me for the stupid things I did when I was drunk. That's life. I crack right back on them. It doesn't mean we don't love each other. Everyone relates differently and it sounds like you aren't used to people with sarcastic senses of humor. I had a sister go off on me one time because I was supposedly getting on her case. I was doing nothing of the kind. She just took what I said the wrong way. I told her I was sorry and we got past it.

Oh, and if you get upset every time someone mentions an alcohol-related incident, it kind of follows that they're not going to invite you along to a party or anything where alcohol is involved.

Everyone is sick to death of everyone else this time of the year. It's a bad time to make an irrevocable decision. Try staying in touch with people via facebook or whatever over the summer, come back to work week (if you have one) and if you're still unhappy then drop out.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Your big sounds like the Kris Jenner of sorority - i.e. she thought having a popular little would make her popular. Although I can't figure out whether you guys stopped talking BEFORE or AFTER you found out everyone dislikes her. If you dropped what it sounds like was a close friendship just because you found out how everyone felt about her, no one is going to feel kindly toward you, even if they don't like her. Sorry if I'm accusing you of things that aren't what is happening, but again it's hard to tell from your post.

I have been out of school for a looooong time and you know what? Some people STILL crack on me for the stupid things I did when I was drunk. That's life. I crack right back on them. It doesn't mean we don't love each other. Everyone relates differently and it sounds like you aren't used to people with sarcastic senses of humor. I had a sister go off on me one time because I was supposedly getting on her case. I was doing nothing of the kind. She just took what I said the wrong way. I told her I was sorry and we got past it.

Oh, and if you get upset every time someone mentions an alcohol-related incident, it kind of follows that they're not going to invite you along to a party or anything where alcohol is involved.

Everyone is sick to death of everyone else this time of the year. It's a bad time to make an irrevocable decision. Try staying in touch with people via facebook or whatever over the summer, come back to work week (if you have one) and if you're still unhappy then drop out.

Very good advice. I'd also add that you sound very sensitive about being unpopular in high school. Let it go. If you are looking constantly for a slight or expecting someone to make fun of you, you will be too busy shying away from expected insults to actually have any fun.