My boyfriend joined a frat and has become so mean; help!!!

[adpiucf]

He's not your boyfriend anymore. He broke up with. I'm sorry this happened. People change a lot during college. I wish you the best; obviously you deserve better than being treated this way.

[DZGA]

Originally Posted by adpiucf

He's not your boyfriend anymore. He broke up with. I'm sorry this happened. People change a lot during college. I wish you the best; obviously you deserve better than being treated this way.

Maybe I shouldn't have labeled this as my bf joined a frat. I just felt like 'ex' sounded like we haven't been together for awhile and he literally just broke up with me.

[Old_Row]

[ASTalumna06]

Buy the book 'He's Just Not that into You.' Seriously.. it will change your life.

You're so young. And trying to rationalize his irrational behavior will only drive you crazy. There are so many fish in the sea. Go find yourself a rod and reel double quick.

[ADPiEE]

Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

Buy the book 'He's Just Not that into You.' Seriously.. it will change your life.

That was my first thought too when I ready this post! I LOVE that book--it should be required reading in high school. I wish it would have been around when I was in college.

Think of this as a time to get more involved in your Sorority. Throw yourself into sorority life. If you've spent most of your time with you ex, you probably didn't spend that much time with your sisters. Now is your opportunity to make closer sorority friends.

[DZGA]

Originally Posted by Old_Row

ouch. kinda hurts to be labeled as that...

[MaryPoppins]

Originally Posted by DZGA

ouch. kinda hurts to be labeled as that...

No, we're not labeling you that, just warning you that's how you might appear to others if you don't watch out. You don't want to be THAT girl which everyone uses as a cautionary tale. Sending you our Panellenicc advice and love!