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Originally Posted by adpiucf
Not really sure who's going to judge a guy for more than a few minutes for dropping out of a fraternity. By your definition, no one is ever allowed to change his mind. That's simply ridiculous. People move on. You've never broken up with someone? Taken a new job? Cancelled dinner plans? People break promises all the time and live very happy and productive lives.
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Poor comparisons. If you're just dating someone and break up, I don't think there's any implication in that sort of relationship that it's forever and most of the time, there's no reliance of your partner on you to take things to the next level. This would be more like divorce or breaking off an engagement, and yeah, in a situation where one party just wants some sexual novelty or something, yes, that's going to reflect on their character.
Dinner plans? I don't think you've ever been part of a colonization, or if you have, I've seen how ADPi colonizes (invests a ton of money/time, they're operating like a full-on chapter with a house after just a semester) and you probably don't have a frame of reference to be making comparisons.
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