#1 Some chapters are really good at recruitment. They make everyone feel like they belong and they are special. It would be rude not to be nice to you after recruitment. They are being classy. They may like you a lot but obviously thought other people fit better into their sisterhood. Like =/= think you'd be the best sister for them.
#2 Some people aren't very good at evaluating the kind of person they themselves are and where they'd best fit in. Sometimes they want to join the sorority that's more full of people they want to be like rather than what they're really like. Those people usually don't realize that this is what is going on in their minds, but the sororities are much better at seeing this because we know what it's really like inside with us.
There is no harm trying to rush again, but it's possible you will have the same or even worse results. Your #1 may still not want you and your other two choices may cut you early because they know you didn't want them last time around. If you can be super honest with yourself and be emotionally prepared for that happening, they go for it.
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