Daughter is a legacy and was cut

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I thInk things have changed a lot since you were in school. There are a lot more legacies as each generation gets to school. We can't keep them all and decisions sometimes have to be made.

I don't get how someone can think they don't like a chapter that they have several friends in. You already like them and have something in common. It always sounds to me like someone is more worried about chapter reputation than being honest with themselves about where they really fit in.

If she rushes again it won't be a clean slate like you said. She's been through and got cut before so there's a good chance those houses will cut her again unless something really changes between now and then. I think she should go through again only if she's really honest with herself and believes she will be ok not being Greek at all and can also survive a bunch more rejection because that could definitely happen.