New Family

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Originally Posted by December190

More information: My sorority does "families" so like my twin, big, g big, gg big and all my littles are one family and we have a name and there are 4 families in the sorority.

My big is now an alum and I am not close with the head of my family or a majority of them. I've recently become really unhappy with a lot of decisions that the chapter has made and I've lost a lot of my passion and drive for my sorority, which is sad because last semester I lived and breathed this sisterhood.

This isn't about drama or forcing anyone to choose, that's not my style, and I'm not going to be a brat about it. This isn't a disrespectful tantrum thing. This is just something that I think will revive my interest in my chapter and I think the girls who want to join this new family are really excited and I'm excited.

It's not a negative thing. I was just wondering if anyone had advice or stories to share.

I am seeing an awful lot of "I" in those reasons. Your earlier posts said you rushed as a junior last fall so that means you'll be leaving soon. You've already talked to other girls about taking them into a new family before even finding out how or if you can do it. It sounds to me like you're set to cause a lot of unnecessary drama even if that is not your intention, just because your big went early alumna and now you aren't happy.