It will get better.
My assumption is that right now, you live in a dorm that = mostly freshmen who went through recruitment. It seems like "everyone is Greek" and "there's nothing to do on campus if you're not" because your whole floor is Greek and that's all you see/hear people talking about.
As you move into a different dorm with more mixed company next year, it won't seem that way.
Also, I know that every school tends to have some sort of large "student org fair" in the first weeks of school. Go to that and see what clubs/orgs you may be interested in that pertain to your major, faith, or something like that. I'm Greek, but I have tons of close friends now that I happened to meet in other clubs outside of my sorority almost 8 years ago.
Another thing: Sometimes you need to just LOG OFF GREEKCHAT. It really doesn't help to be lurking around here looking at rush threads with happy endings. So if you start to feel really hurt, take a step back and come back some other time. We won't be offended.
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