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Originally Posted by als463
Would you say the same thing if mom was saying everything like this throughout the thread about her daughter not being happy because the chapter wasn't viewed as desirable only to find out she was talking about Alpha Phi? I doubt it.
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ALS463, you need to go back and read my posts one more time... and no, I have not and will not edit them. Those posts are mine, not CATFAN, whose name is very similar. I never once said that any of the chapters weren't viewed as desirable. I said that my daughter did not feel that that they were a
good fit for her and were not her top choices. There's a big difference! But, after her pref parties, she changed her mind... something an 18 year old girl does quite often. I doubt that any of the houses are naive enough to think that they are the top choice for everyone who gets a bid from them. I specifically said I didn't want to mention the names because of someone getting the wrong idea. I was scared to death that my daughter wasn't going to get in at all and that is the kind of disappointment I didn't want her to suffer right before school starts. It is devastating for some girls, and there was one in her group that had that happen yesterday!! Please get your facts straight before accusing and do not twist the meaning of people's words to suit your own negative attitude.
Thank you to the rest of you moms for such great advice and support. Congrats to everyone!!
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