telling her the truth

[James]

A little late here but you should tell him to break up with his current gf and NOT go back to his ex either.

Ex's are that way for reasons. Also, they didn't handle the break up well if they were still talking and keeping each other in reserve.

And as far as the nice versus hot idea. There are really nice hot and/or pretty girls also.

Oh. And you obviously like him.


And I am on the same page as Xidelt with this: I'm a guy and I am telling you that he is more acting like a douchebag. He is not keeping her because he is trying to make her happy. He is keeping her because she is fulfilling a lot of his needs. But honestly, she never got a fair chance because he has been still talking to his EX, even if you think she is beneath his level anyway.

Its hard to beat nostalgia.

[tcsparky]

Yes, James, I like him. We have been close friends for a little over five years. But I don't "like him like him" as my middle schoolers say. I know him too well for that.

He has not yet broken up with her. He actually asked me if I thought that lying to the ex, saying he had broken up, and then seeing her as much as possible before she found out was a good idea. I rolled my eyes and finished my ice cream.

I told him that he reminds me too much of a Dawson's Creek episode. I'm just glad that the drama is his and not mine.