What this active sorority member has done is potentially very, very hurtful to the OP's friend. If friend doesn't get a bid from XYZ, she is going to be crushed far beyond how she'd feel if she hadn't been promised a bid.
I don't think it's fair to say this is the behavior of one woman and write it off. It's not like she saw one woman getting rowdy in a bar or one woman slacking off in class. She is aware of one woman playing a very mean game with her friend. I don't see how that could NOT influence her opinion of XYZ.
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Originally Posted by Greek_or_Geek?
Many collegians have come up with them. The national or international groups I am more familiar with have strongly discouraged their use.
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I ranted on this in another thread (I think I hijacked SAI), but I immediately see "gang sign" when people throw up their hand signs in bid day pics. I am most definitely not the only one.
I also noticed one group's that looked like the ASL sign for "vagina" to me.
So yeah, I think I know why groups don't want their girls doing this in all of their pictures.