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Originally Posted by irishpipes
Well, my soft side took over and I decided to give the PNM a chance to explain herself so I sent her an email expressing confusion that she only listed 6 sororities when there are more than that at her school. Do you already have recs for the other groups? Her response: "No I don't have recs for the other groups, and I would love to get any recs I can, but having gone through recruitment before, and being a sophomore, I just listed the ones that I really want to make sure I have a rec for. Thank you so much for any help you can give me!!"
Oh mylanta.
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I find myself in something close to this situation kind of frequently. What I try to do is ask myself if the chapter would be helped by her membership rather than what her cluelessness actually deserves. So if clueless wonder gets cut by her super desirable chapters early in the process and realizes that she now kind of likes my group, does she have the kind of traits in general, despite her pre-recruitment silliness, that make her worth recommending? If so, then I recommend her as well as I would have has she not been so ignorant. Because I think often that's what it really is. They just don't know any better. They should, but they don't. And some can be educated.
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