bigs/littles

[PSUSigKap]

at my chapter several of my sisters, including me!, have 2 littles. make sure that the new member knows that some of your brothers will be taking two so that they don't feel like they'll get left out. the way we choose is have the sisters write down their top 5 choices for littles and the new members write down their top 5 choices for bigs. then the new member ed matches them the best they can. for us we shower the new members with gifts over 3 days. i don't know how the fraternities do it, so i'm not sure how to advise you in that respect. i hope this helps!