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Originally Posted by gr33kfan
I guess I'm wondering that if in the past social chairs haven't been able to get something to happen between us and sororities, what's going to make them change their minds? How do we stick out enough for them to want to include us in their already busy schedules?
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Be nice guys (without being bootlicking pussies). Be visible. Be sociable. Support sororities in their endeavors. Don't go overboard trying to appeal to the "top" sororities. You will come off like 90% of the fraternity (and non-fraternity) dudes on campus, someone who wants to sleep with a girl in a popular sorority just to get a notch on their belt. Concentrate on the girls who will be more likely to accept your invitations and just have a fun time without constantly comparing you to FratttyFrat ABC.
More than anything...your social chair should be the cutest, nicest, most sociable, most visible on campus member of your fraternity. This works wonders. Even if this guy already has an office...even an exec board office...the invitations and contacts should come from him.
As far as events with the sorority's new member class only...I thought this was considered hazing (pledges doing something initiated sisters don't have to do, and putting the pledges "on display" for fraternity men). I would stay away from this unless it is an established tradition on your campus and the sororities' HQs look the other way about it.
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