OP: stop focusing on everyone else. Let go of what happened in the past. It's DONE! FINISHED! OVER! Go through recruitment again with an open mind. This thread has fabulous advice for you. Take it. Or NOT.
Focus on yourself! Keep your grades up. Read GC threads on sophomores, on second recruitment experiences, on how to have a successful recruitment.
For the love of Mike, stop throwing out "excuses" and "reasons" for what happened in your recruitment. You.Will.Never.Know. Membership selection is considered part of Ritual (caveat: speaking for my own organization) and no one is going to ever provide you with the specifics you keep seeking.
If you are going through at Arizona (and if you are, don't tell us!!!), sophomores can and do get bids to the majority of the chapters. I can't talk about any other campus.
You have another opportunity. Don't blow it.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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