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[aquablue912]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Slut-shaming women is, well, problematic. I know nobody wants to be branded the slut house or anything like that, but teaching women to be ashamed of consensual adult sexual activity is maybe not in their best interests, either.

DeltaBetaBaby,
I agree with you. I don't think our goal would be to say that this woman is not allowed to have 'relations' with whomever she wants, but rather to not broadcast it to the rest of the Greek community. The issue was not her actions specifically, but that she freely told many other Greeks about when she slept with any guy in a fraternity. That is the part that I find inappropriate.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by aquablue912

DeltaBetaBaby,
I agree with you. I don't think our goal would be to say that this woman is not allowed to have 'relations' with whomever she wants, but rather to not broadcast it to the rest of the Greek community. The issue was not her actions specifically, but that she freely told many other Greeks about when she slept with any guy in a fraternity. That is the part that I find inappropriate.

What was her life like before college? Did she have many boyfriends or anything resembling a sex life? Some people are so sheltered they don't know what to do, or that what they're doing is inappropriate. After all, Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian pretty much became millionaires for doing exactly what you're talking about. I would talk with her and ask her WHY she's telling everyone who she's boinking, not just say "that's wrong, don't do it."