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Originally Posted by future pnmmom
if we can't secure a rec for "XYZ" will that affect her with "ABC" and "EFG" or only "XYZ"?
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To my knowledge (and this could delve into membership selection if you dug too far) ABC will not know if she has a rec (or not) to XYZ. Even if friends talked and ABC knew that she didn't have a rec, it shouldn't affect her one way or the other.
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Originally Posted by future pnmmom
Also, I am not clear on "bumping", especially during the first round. If you are bumped 3 or 4 times, is that a good thing? Or is it a negative, meaning that none of the girls care for you and don't want to waste time on you? Thank you so much!
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This is different for each chapter. Don't spend time worrying about it. I would guess that most bump several times so that several girls could get to know her. Nobody can be sure.
Good luck Future pnmmom! You're getting started at the right time - early!
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