Am I not 'right' for a sorority?

[DubaiSis]

And, by the way, the philanthropies change. My sorority's philanthropy when I was in college was American Lung Association, a group I strongly support. They were fantastic for the sorority because among other things we were required to know CPR. Our national philanthropy has changed twice since then and I am not thrilled with our current one, but would I change my sorority (not that I could anyway) because of it? Of course not. And some sororities support causes that are extremely worthwhile and under-served in the community, but maybe not as sexy or flavor of the month as some others.

Oh, and one little correction. Your family member IS a member of a sorority. This isn't a college thing - it's a rest of your life thing. Unless of course she terminated her membership.