The Real Housewives of Atlanta

[KSUViolet06]

^^^^Here's my thing with Cynthia and her sister: I get that she has concerns about Peter (dunno, I personally think he's a little shady.) However, at some point you have to stop letting Cynthia's decisions affect you so much.

Ex: crying because you think she might give Peter money. If she chooses to give him money and later on gets screwed out of it, that's on HER in the end. You can't lose sleep over it.

[LikeASista]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

^^^^Here's my thing with Cynthia and her sister: I get that she has concerns about Peter (dunno, I personally think he's a little shady.) However, at some point you have to stop letting Cynthia's decisions affect you so much.

Ex: crying because you think she might give Peter money. If she chooses to give him money and later on gets screwed out of it, that's on HER in the end. You can't lose sleep over it.

That's exactly what got to me. If my sister makes the decision to give HER HUSBAND money, then I just have to say, "Hey, ... all I can do is advise you." And, if everything blows up in her face, then all I can do is try to be there for her (even though I'll be thinking, "Hey, I told you so ...") But to take it to a whole 'nother level by getting all emotional about it is sort of stepping over the line a bit.

And Mama Joyce got in Kandi's behind about that stripper. She had to break it down to her: "I may be your homegirl, but I'm your mama first." Gon', Mama Joyce!!