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The PNM has to realize at some point that he's actively being rushed. If not, he might be a little bit pissed. Like I said if you're doing it right, it should get to the point where the rushee ASKS for a bid. You shouldn't have to "parade" him because one of the things you invited him to should have been an event that brothers attend en masse (like the theater productions I suggested).
I know of people who were GREAT with me and 3 other friends. The rest of the chapter, however, couldn't stand them.
The timeline is different for every rushee. When you try to force things is when they don't work out. That's when the rushee feels like you had zero interest in him as a person, and that you were just looking at him as a number to add to your chapter.
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