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Originally Posted by GreekGirley
Bottom line is that if the girl would be THAT unhappy in her 2nd (or 3rd or 4th) choice, then those chapters at the bottom probably know it. I mean, if she feels strongly enough to not even list the group on her pref card?? Come on...you KNOW that chapter has a definite hold on that vibe and will place her way down on the list. Now, that doesn't mean that she won't still get them...but the odds are much more likely that she'll get her 1st choice.
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Not necessarily. You're assuming that these women are going into their 2nd or 3rd choice chapters and acting like little brats rather than being mannerly and polite. It's possible for a PNM to be engaged in conversation with the person rushing her and the PNM still not want to be a member of that chapter. It's like the opposite of those strong-rushing chapters that make every PNM feel wanted, for lack of a better analogy.
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