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Old 09-25-2011, 11:38 PM
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You don't have to drink if you join a fraternity. You probably will feel uncomfortable in a fraternity where heavy drinking is the norm - and you'll see indications during rush if a chapter does drink heavily. If you are required to drink as a pledge - that's hazing. If you are forbidden to drink if you are a pledge of legal drinking age - that could be construed as hazing also.

When I was in college *ahem* years ago, when open parties with free-flowing alcohol were the norm, and they would card but then cheerfully ignore the big black X on the back of your hand ... there was a fraternity chapter where one of the actives was a recovering alcoholic. The chapter had at least one party each semester that was dry. I have a lot of respect for that chapter - they knew the party would be poorly attended but they had it anyway.
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Old 09-26-2011, 01:00 PM
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When I was in college *ahem* years ago,
I'm sorry, I missed that? How many years ago? /snark
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I'm sorry, I missed that? How many years ago? /snark
I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.
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