First, thanks for answering so quickly.
Actually, I've read the threads... What I meant was, my chances are less than if I've been invited to two pref parties, right? ("maximize options")
I can only put the one sorority I'm invited to on my card. :/
Yes, you're right AlphaGam. Hopefully everything will turn out right and I'll come back to say proudly I'm a new member of this house I love so much

But, it's normal to be stressed, right? I bet you were also... :/