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08-30-2011, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
Thank you - "Sick, Sad World" is what I meant.
If you will read my responses, you will see that it is not the collegians who I think should be doing this, but the alumna in charge of recommendations. I will take the suggestions to write BEFORE recruitment to encourage the pnms to contact me after recruitment. I wouldn't contact the families for the same reason I wouldn't contact the young women after recruitment. Also, I clearly stated why I was interested. I understand that you are sensitive to privacy concerns, but those don't factor in to my request that alumnae advisors let those sisters who send recs know the result of recruitment. Some Gamma Phi chapters even have pre-made cards they send. It doesn't take a great deal of time to check ___ did not pledge __ pledged Gamma Phi ___ pledged _____. That's it - you can do it under a minute. Those chapters who have crazy-go-nuts pledge classes also tend to be the chapters who have alumnae committees dealing with recs, so it isn't even a case of one woman being overwhelmed.
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Idea...maybe a bad one, but...why don't you have those printed up and sent along with your rec to the GPhi chapter? Filled out with the PNM's name, a stamp and your address to return to? Then just send a sticky note on it to have the chapter please check the appropriate box and send to you once they know her status? Then all the "work" is done for them & they just have to check the box?
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08-30-2011, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by shirley1929
Idea...maybe a bad one, but...why don't you have those printed up and sent along with your rec to the GPhi chapter? Filled out with the PNM's name, a stamp and your address to return to? Then just send a sticky note on it to have the chapter please check the appropriate box and send to you once they know her status? Then all the "work" is done for them & they just have to check the box?
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That's basically what I do - I send a list of the pnms with a line to fill in IF they pledged - if it's blank, they didn't pledge. I send it with a stamped, self-addressed envelope. Again, some return it; some don't.
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08-30-2011, 01:03 PM
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That's basically what I do - I send a list of the pnms with a line to fill in IF they pledged - if it's blank, they didn't pledge. I send it with a stamped, self-addressed envelope. Again, some return it; some don't.
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Gotcha. Missed that.
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08-30-2011, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted by shirley1929
Idea...maybe a bad one, but...why don't you have those printed up and sent along with your rec to the GPhi chapter? Filled out with the PNM's name, a stamp and your address to return to? Then just send a sticky note on it to have the chapter please check the appropriate box and send to you once they know her status? Then all the "work" is done for them & they just have to check the box?
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
That's basically what I do - I send a list of the pnms with a line to fill in IF they pledged - if it's blank, they didn't pledge. I send it with a stamped, self-addressed envelope. Again, some return it; some don't.
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What SWTXBelle is doing ought to be more than enough to get the info she wants. There's interest in maintaining safety, and then in contrast, there's disregard for alumnae service in the form of writing recs. If an alumna provides that degree of help in terms of doing the recs and providing her own results form to a chapter with a self-addressed stamped envelope, it shouldn't be asking to much to get the form returned with a little info about what happened to each woman.
I mainly write RIFs to UGA, Auburn and Alabama. Auburn and Alabama acknowledge receiving them and let me know the link to the web bid lists and when it will be up. UGA sends me individual cards with the results for each girl, but because of the work involved with the numbers of PNMs they have, I don't usually get them until long after recruitment.
I really appreciate their efforts.
Last edited by UGAalum94; 08-30-2011 at 08:12 PM.
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08-30-2011, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted by UGAalum94
I mainly write RIFs to UGA, Auburn and Alabama. Auburn and Alabama acknowledge receiving them and let me know the link to the web bid lists and when it will be up. UGA sends me individual cards with the results for each girl, but because of the work involved with the numbers of PNMs they have, I don't usually get them until long after recruitment.
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I've had the same experience with DG at UGA (individual cards that take a long time) and Auburn (link to bid list after reception of rec). Funny how different sororities are the same in this regard!
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