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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Lots of times, we advise PNM's to ask their rec writers if they know alumnae of other sororities. How do you guys treat a PNM that comes to you in this manner? Do you consider her to be "personally known", or is she the same as a random PNM referred to you via an APH? Or does it depend on who referred her?
I have never been asked for a rec in this manner, but I think if a close friend/relative referred a PNM to me, I'd think "well, if close friend considers her good enough for ABC, then she must be good enough for my org, too".
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I have had friends ask me to write recs, and in turn I have asked others to do recs for girls that I know.
I typically put on the rec form that I do not personally know the young lady, but if my trusted friend vouches for her then I do note that.
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